Not where, but how to live

Finding home

Nov 9 • 

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October 2025

Five Days in Antibes

Journal entries from my first solo to trip to the French Riviera

Oct 26 • 

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Ranking all the James Bonds in order of rizz

Because I haven't done a stupid newsletter in a while

Oct 19 • 

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Can you be a complex female character in real life?

Or do badly behaved women only belong on the page?

Oct 5 • 

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September 2025

Halfway up Cringe Mountain

"To be cool is to have first been cringe"

Sep 28 • 

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Still saving him a seat

TW: I talk about suicide in this week's article. Feel free to skip!

Sep 14 • 

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Who’s still negging in 2025?

Some people need to go back to flirting school...

Sep 7 • 

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August 2025

Limerence, love and AI boyfriends

In romantic relationships, there must be room for embarrassment, denial and failure

Aug 25 • 

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What’s your morning-after etiquette like?

On sex and its power to make us change our minds about one another

Aug 18 • 

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Who will save me from my brain?

Overcoming a lifetime of phobias

Aug 10 • 

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July 2025

Are the boys okay?

Lessons from stepping out of my circle

Jul 20 • 

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Burdened by the aesthetics of things

We've forgotten that real life has clutter, chaos and isn't content-ready

Jul 13 • 

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