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Robert Kos's avatar

I feel the old "I statements" lessons that are a basic part of therapy could help cool down these situations.

"I didn't get this album"

"I didn't find the songs interested me or that the hooks stuck with me"

"I would have liked the artist to explore these themes deeper"

Read far more acceptably to fans than ...

"They've insulted the listening public with 40 minutes of incomprehensible self-indulgence."

"Each song is limp and forgotten as soon as it finishes."

"[Artist] never bothers to even explore or connect the ideas they raise in any meaningful way."

Of course, cooling down might not desirable for many of the stakeholders in these situations because triggered emotions = attention = engagement.

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Lou's avatar

Wonderful piece and such an important topic. Bring back controversial reviews! I feel like in a lot of instances we’ve been drawn into cult like views of music moments where those who disagree are shunned. Michelin restaurants aren’t just handed out to anyone and whilst that may come with its problems, reviews and criticism have always pushed art further. Everything needs balance but these shining sponsored reviews are not giving space for difference. This is also reflective of streaming platform playlist pushing music through sponsorship as opposed to intrigue and passion. In total agreement that super personal matters should be respected and not influencing opinions. I’m not entirely sure why fans take such a review so personally??

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