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Ask Alanna: I’ve been in love with the same person for years. How do I let go?

Ask Alanna: I’ve been in love with the same person for years. How do I let go?

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Q: I’ve been in love with someone for years. Despite our feelings, we could never quite get it together enough to make something work. But, even though I’ve had other relationships and we haven’t spoken for a year, I’m never not a little bit in love with him. Any tips on letting these feelings go?  

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