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Ask Alanna: I asked to track my boyfriend's location & he said no. Now I'm worried about why

Ask Alanna: I asked to track my boyfriend's location & he said no. Now I'm worried about why

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Q: After finding out that lots of my friends use location services like Find My Friends to see where their partner is (they use it for casual stuff like knowing when to start making dinner and seeing if they’ve left work), I asked my boyfriend to do the same and he said no. He said it’s because no one needs to know where someone is around the clock, which I get. But now I can’t help feeling like he’s deliberately hiding things from me. None of my friend’s partners care. Why does he? 

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